I’ve combined your two posts because they seem to be nearly identical, though seemingly for two separate vehicle setups.
If the BlueOS interface is able to be connected to, your QGC connection issue must be related to your network configuration.
Have you set up your Fathom-X connection to use the relevant IP address, and allowed QGC through the windows defender firewall?
If your network or computer has a separate firewall installed that may also require some configuration for QGC to be allowed to connect to the vehicle via UDP.